Will I mind his little quirks?
One day, you’re finishing college and trying to understand how you’re meant to go-and-do now that you don’t have every day mapped out for you…. and the next you’re moving in with your boyfriend, getting a dog, and signing up for the long-haul.
L & i have so many changes coming up and I’d hate to look back and not remember the little details of our story.. so even though we’re a few months off still, I’ll share a few thoughts now:
- What will it be like waking up by the person you love every morning? Sometimes its really fun to not see Lance for a day or two.. I think to myself “Eeee, I get to see Lance today!”… How soon will this wear off?
-We’re both people who enjoy our alone time, so we’ll definitely map out some spaces that we can spend time and reflect in. Over the past year, I’ve encouraged my unknown love for writing, but this is a personal process… one that won’t/can’t really take place with Lance sitting nearby.
-I fear that I love hanging out with him so much that I won’t be as productive on all of the things that I love to do on my own time. I have so many side projects and dreams I’ve cultivated this year & I don’t want to lose track of that once I’m distracted 24/7 by my oh-so-handsome dude.
I think Lance’s number one fear would go something like this: Rachel thinks putting dry cereal on a napkin and then setting it on the couch is totally fine & won’t cause a massive spread of crumbs everywhere.
To my love, I swear to make baby steps & put my cereal snacks in a cup from here on out. (Maybe this whole living together thing might work out.)